A week ago last Friday, my father was diagnosed with diffuse large cell B lymphoma. When I called him I tried to hide that I was nervous and emotional. I didn’t know how he was taking the news and I wanted to be strong for him. I was surprised when right out of the gate he said, “If they can take care of this I’ll be fine. And if they can’t, I’ll be fine. I’ve had a great life.” And that was that. He then asked, “Are you coming in for Thanksgiving? They put on a great buffet here.”